Interview...

Salam...and Hi...

I'm sure all of us have been to an interview before..right? For whatever reason whether it's for a job, a scholarship or even being interviewed by our future inlaws (yikes!!)

My last interview was with my current company 8 years ago...and of course when I was younger and just  graduated as a Diploma holder in Executive Secretaryship I look forward to whenever there is a job interview, you know to get better pay etc..

One of my favourites is with this company in Dayabumi, KL... I was working with BP Oil at that time, and there was this guy who interviewed me and asked me to come back again for a second session with his boss... There they were about 4 of them in the room and I was supposed to get nervous but no... I was so confident and just answered to whatever questions they had for me.. I was like ..."bring it on, baby"..hahaha... Of course I passed the interview with flying colours but the pay they offered wasn't that attractive, so I declined.

And one more... I went for a job interview in a company which is a dealer for a luxury car here in Malaysia... I was supposed to work with the man who interviewed me..Again, the offer wasn't good enough for me to leave the company I was working with...I declined. To my surprise he came to my house and said he is willing to fork out some cash to meet my requirement (the pay, of course)...I was like "hello" .. I am not working with this guy...!! No ..no.. Gila ke ape aku nak kerja dengan dia ni..Kalau aku kerja dengan dia entah ape la akan jadi pada akak dek non, oiii...Sorry naik lori la ... Ingat lagi housemate aku kata "Zara! ada org tua nak jumpa kau.." hahaha..

Masa interview nak masuk ITM lagi best, interviewer tu kata "Ni nak masuk ITM mesti nak cari boifren".. Aku jawab balik "Kalau nak cari boyfriend kat sini pun boleh"...terus dapat masuk ITM.  Amik kau...! hehehehehe

So moral of the story, kalau dah rezeki kita...memang kita punya... Just be yourself, walk in with self confidence, give it your best..and doa banyak2 pada Allah SWT...sebab rezeki sume datang dari Dia...bukan dari sesape pun...

Wasalam and goodnight!

It's 14th July and the clock keeps on tickin'...

Haaa...dah lama tak mem blogging ni...almaklumlah asyik bizi ngan anak2 ..suami...ke hulu ke hilir..mana yg remaja, yg sekolah rendah ...yg masih 3 thn... nasib baik kita manusia dikurniakan kesabaran (walau ada tahap)... lagipun dah jadi mak kan..takkan nak give up on your children ..
Nope never give on your child...they are your 'assets'.. betul tak?

Today is Sunday 14 July 2013...here I am again infront of the computer ..babbling on whatever comes into my mind...

My only daughter is in boarding school..if she is around, then I'll be in a mall somewhere looking for whatever she needs...not my needs...her needs..! We are closed...she tells me about boys, school, her ambition etc etc...and like a best friend let secrets be secrets.

And because of the same interests we share, we clicked...Once I took her to a movie...Ombak Rindu..drove all the way ..just the two of us and left the little ones with my husband...We cried and exchange tissues during the movie...hehehe...then kept on raving about that movie to everyone...

Then recently went crazy with the latest 13 episodes of Sebenarnya Saya Isteri Dia (SSID) on TV3...

We, plus another 11 million viewers watched that final episode on Friday, 5th July.  What I can say about SSID is:

1. Izzue Islam nailed the character as Firash Arshad.. I saw his work in Senyuman di Kuala Lumpur, Bunga Merah Punya...but in SSID he is brilliant..the character suits him like a glove! LOL .. (Bak kata DikDa...dulu tak nak kawin..like nobody will even care..tengah meletop nak kawin pulak!!!) Bernanah mata anak aku nengok gambor Izzue and wife!!! Alalala..cian..tak pe..melambak lagi mcm dia kat luor tu...

2. Tiz Zaqyah...I 'fell in love' with Tiz as Nur in Nur Kasih...So lovely...she looks beautiful wearing 'tudung' ..oh, well..it's her job as an actress..everyone loves her characters in SSID and Nur Kasih... hey..I even went to see Nur Kasih the movie, duhhh!! Again, with my 'bff'...

3. The storyline...not bad...although we hope for a better final episode...that's the risk of making  a movie from a novel...everyone expects it to be 100% from what they read from the novel itself...

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Then come this viral video from youtube about a school girl confessing her love  to a boy..just after 1 week of being a couple!!!

My daughter was like "what was she thinking??"...I mean where I come from...girls are not supposed to break the ice...no..no... I told her what my mom told me..."Never start ..let him start first"...I mean, the confession, the obsession..the whatever that may come from what you call'love"..pfft! Nanti tak pasal2 kalau break off ke, kena balik kat kita "awak yg beria-ria ..saya tak kisah sangat pon"...panggg!!! what a slap in the face kan...

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What I shared with my children is what I've learned, heard and experienced in life. They may not experience it or maybe they will do things differently... but it is my duty to guide, to teach and even to listen...as life might not be fair...but if you take things positively, everything will be perfect! (wink)

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till then...have a great Sunday ...

Hello to Everyone..

Gosh..I admit! I even forgot that I actually have a blog until someone mentioned it to me ..! LOL..!

With the Facebook as my main source of cyber interaction, I guess I forgot to write!!!

My, my..how's everybody been? Me? Still hangin' in here and oh..today is my birthday...(don't want to mention the number..go calculate and figure it out..haha)..

I used to feel good on birthdays..but something is really missing this year, I guess that is what they call as the mid life crisis?? (Gosh, I can't believe I'm already there!)..No..no, it's not that I'm not grateful or anything..but sometimes I wonder what if I have done things that I should have done years back..and I know that if we keep on clinging to the past, how are we supposed to go on..? Well, I was just wondering! What if, I got better exam results yearsss back...I wouldn't be at my place right now? What if I did not meet my hubby (thank God, I met him)..who would I marry???hahaha..(cannot imagine!)..What if I continued my studies to the highest level..??

I have done things that I am not proud of over the years, but I think that what makes life more interesting..add more colours to life? Don't u think so? We make mistakes, but it doesn't mean that we have to live the rest of our lives with it..

We learn, we fail, we succeed...but at least we tried, that is most important...But all in all..we have to be thankful that we are still in the right track...Life is never a stagnant journey...We are always tested by God...God knows what is best for us..God created us, knows our weakness and strength..after all life is just a transit. Make the best out of it while we are still at this point...and be fully prepared for life thereafter, which is the life we have to live forever...

To all, have a great day...don't wait for tomorrow to make things happen..live life today!

Happy Birthday to anyone, anytime of the year..Today is the new beginning...Let's rock!!!LOL!

Luv you!

How are we supposed to forgive when we can never forget??? Can someone help...???

7 Things...

7 Things (this is what happens when your teenage daughter is a fan of Miley Cyrus!) that I wish I could do........

1. Shop till I drop at my favourite stores (minus the hubby and kids, for a change..hehehehe)

2. Watch American Idol - if Casey James promise to actually sing...
(can you please put down the guitar and sing! -he's a good looking dude, by the way (wink!)
3. Drink coffee, eat fast food (on the couch)!

4. Sleep for 8 hours straight (when did I last get 8 minutes of good sleep)?

5. Meet up with my girlfriends (yeah...with FB and all...a cuppa coffee at Starbucks are
actually more fun!)

6. Resign from my current workplace and do someting fun (plus the income) forever!

7. Hallucinating (like Ally McBeal used to do) and keep on dreaming....!

I can dream, can't I???

New Year 2010

The hospital.....

I hope it is not too late to wish everyone a Happy New Year 2010...May this year brings joy to us all.

Baby Hariz............

The best "new year's gift" for me - the arrival of my 5th child - Hariz...Born January 13, 2010 at 12.58 am @ Regency Specialist Hospital, Johor. I asked for ephidural and then had to opt for vacuum delivery (I couldn't push anymore...since I couldn't feel anything!)...Everything went well..

Another Johorian!! And it's a boy!!...Weight: 2.9 kilogram

To all staff at Regency Specialist Hospital - Thank you for the superb service! I really rested and was pampered well during my 3 days, 2 nites stay! It's worth every single penny!

To Dr Tokha Muhammad - Thank you again...! Keep up the great work!

To all my friends - thank you for the prayers and wishes...the sms, the phone calls even when I was in the labour room!!! I really appreciate it...

May God Bless Us All....

Hugzzzzz....

My New Book

Once I had my heart set on something...I have to get it!

I watch Oprah on TV last month, and she was talking to comedian Steve Harvey ...I didn't know that this guy actually writes books! I mean, I know him only as a funny guy...What I didn't know that he has a radio program which attracts 7 million listeners every morning in Chicago ..! People call in for advice..from a guy's point of view....You know, a person who can give advice and be funny at the same time is the best person to talk to! He knows when to be funny and when to actually advice you especially on relationships.

As usual, I ordered the book online from Kunikoniya (I hope I got the spelling right!)...The price is ...let's just say you can buy a week's grocery with that amount (considering my household headcounts!)...


I 've only read half way through, though...and yet, I have learnt quite a lot about - not only what actually lingers in a man's mind - but also their expectations and how they show their love (believe me girl, it's nothing like how we show our love)....


I recommend to those women who is always searching for answers esp when it comes to the man you love...or just buy it for easy reading...Steve really knows how to make you laugh..hehe...