Trust – It is the most important element in any relationship. Let it be with your spouse, your children, parents, friends, colleagues or lovers.
I always remind my children. “Don’t ever betray my trust. Once I don’t trust you, life would be difficult”. I think I trust them 100%. That is ‘scary’, isn’t it?
I want to be the kind of person that anyone can trust. I remind myself to keep someone’s secret as I want them to keep mine. If the secret leaks, don’t point your finger at me. Ask someone else. I have kept so many secrets and I am honored to keep it. I thank them for trusting me. I thank them for choosing me as the person they can talk to - about anything.
As for my marriage, I honor it as I honored my life!
Please … be truthful and honest. The truth may hurt, but the lies can kill…we may be alive, but the relationship is surely ‘dead’.